欺凌是什么样的?
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肢体
与某人的身体有不必要的接触。
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Online
用在线网络来骚扰、威胁及使别人难堪。
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社交
任何形式的孤立、流言蜚语、散播谣言或排挤。
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言语
用文字来侮辱、批评或恐吓另一个人。
会涉及哪些人?
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旁观者
旁观者包括所有目睹任何类型欺凌的人。你可以选择做个有帮助的或者有损害的旁观者,这要看你有什么举动和反应。
有损害的旁观者可能会大笑,推波助澜,以及参与继续欺凌某人。
有帮助的旁观者可能会干预,支持那个受到欺凌的人,以及向可信赖的成年人求助。
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欺凌者
Bullies use the methods listed above (physical, online, social and verbal) to harass and intimidate others in order to have power over someone else.
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受害者
May be targeted by bullies due to being different, coming from a different background or peer group, or due to jealousy from bullies.
"有人前来和我们全体师生谈及欺凌,他们所说的有很多使我想到,我班上某人受到怎样的对待。"
"他受到排挤,大家午餐时间踢足球,不让他参与,另外有些人在他背后议论他。
我意识到,即使我未必有做那些事情,我仍然亲眼目睹,我可以尽自己的一份力。
我决定不做旁观者,找人谈谈此事。他们帮助大家确保每个人都是友善和包容的。"
我可以怎样帮助?
Know you’re not alone.
There are many people who care about your safety and the first step in getting help is to let others know what is happening to you or a someone you know. By reporting unsafe behaviour to trusted adults, such as parents, teachers, and counsellors, you can help put a stop to their behaviour. The first step in changing things is by letting others know about what’s going on.
想了解更多信息?
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Erase Bullying网站
期望得到尊重和安全的教育。了解一下不同类型的欺凌和如何求助。
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Bullying.org网站
Bullying.org致力于帮助防止和消除欺凌。
bullying.org -
Need Help Now网站
如果你(或朋友、同辈或兄弟姊妹)牵涉入自己/同辈的事件(也叫做“发色情短讯”), 这个网站会指导你可采取什么措施。
needHelpNow.ca